Why Women over 30 struggle with self-worth ~ And how to heal
- Lindsey Jane

- Jul 22
- 1 min read
Turning 30 can feel like crossing an invisible threshold. For many women, it's a season of reflection, on careers, relationships, body image, motherhood, and unmet expectations. It's also a time when self-worth can quietly unravel. Here are a few reason why women over 30 struggle with self-worth, and how you can fix it:
Why the struggle?
Cultural pressure ~ Society often sets unrealistic timelines for success, beauty and family life. Women who don't "tick all the boxes" by 30 may internalise feelings of failure.
Caregiver burnout ~ Many women spend their 20s caring for others, children, partners, or aging parents. Leaving little room to know or care for themselves.
Comparisons ~ Social media amplifies insecurities. Seeing curated snapshots of others "perfect" lives can deepen self-doubt.
Old wounds ~ Unresolved childhood patterns or past toxic relationships often resurface, especially during life transitions.
The path to healing
Inner child work ~ Acknowledge and nurture the parts of you that were neglected or silenced. Reconnect with your core worth beyond roles or achievements.
Mindful rebuilding ~ Practice self-compassion, challenge negative self-talk, and set boundaries that protect your energy.
Seek support ~ Coaching, therapy, or women's circles can offer the guidance and validation you need to rewrite your story.
You are not behind. You are not broken. You are becoming.
🌐 Start your journey today with our Radiance reset mini guide which you can download here.
💫 I invite you to check out www.rootedradianceuk.com or drop me a message at lindseyjane@rootedradianceuk.com
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